Fund for Grandparents to Give: BBALX/MASNX The situation is real; our first grandchild was born a couple of months ago. The parents are both successful federal employees and do already invest, from the sounds of what I hear they have FANG or similar stocks. I am tempted to offer a modest amount so that the parents might start a fund for our grand daughter, in hopes that we or they could add periodically. The question is how to do it right.
My parents gave us lump sums for a couple of our kids, but seemed to forget the last two. No advice, no strings, no great interest. Parents-in-law gave share certificates directly to my wife on no schedule. Sears, Kodak, Pinnacle West, and the Hancock regional bank fund. No advice, no rationale, no pointers on dividend reinvestment at a time in my life when I knew squat about money. Both sets of parents had money, but did no better talking about it than they did with sex ed. Glad we sold the first two when we did, but if someone had told me that selling electricity to the Four Corners area was a sure thing, and to reinvest the dividends, we'd probably be sitting on a college fund for at least one kid. Same for the MF; it was a great idea, but if you don't tell the donee how to benefit from it, it's kind of useless. Fortunately, the past is the past.
David's and Charles' write ups of BBASX and MASNX, and the mention twice that these could serve as core funds for young people set me to thinking. Should I donate a position in a fund and tell my kids why I chose it and why I think it should be held and how to make it grow and the whole 50-minute lecture on buy-and-hold, including how to avoid all the screw- ups I made on my investing journey? Conversely, should I count on my over-achieving kids to pick the right investment for their daughter and skip the lecture on risk management?. (Actually, I'm not qualified to deliver that, but it sounded good.) With respect to the two funds above, I'd be reluctant to pick such funds because I don't really understand how the managers make money. I can read the beautifully written and cogently reasoned descriptions by our colleagues, but I myself could not take my son-in- law aside and explain in my own words why Ella would be in great shape 18 years from now. On the other hand, I could suggest a conservative allocation fund which is on my high conviction list, namely BRUFX. I could do ok explaining that one and have no qualms about buying it for the child. For comparison's sake, I manage a UGTM fund for my 18-year old. It's composed of positions in VIG, AKREX, DSENX, and HIMVX. 50% of all money this daughter earns is direct deposited into it.
All suggestions are welcome. I don't want to be a control freak, but I sure don't want to give a tool without a user's manual.